Beware double meanings in religious rhetoric. Honest leaders will mean “faith” and ”love” when they say it, but beware those who twist language to their own advantage. I’ll give you some examples
“Faith” should mean “loyalty to God”, but it can also “loyalty to the leader” or “system”. “Do not grumble” is a good command but it can also mean “do not oppose or question us”. “Taking advice” is also good, if you listen to several sources, consider it and make an informed decision, but it can also mean “do what we say”.
It takes wisdom to differentiate double meanings. It may be easy to be gullible, and let others do the thinking for you, or it may be easy to be paranoid, and constantly distrust authority. So it takes wisdom, and testing out individual issues as they arise, because often that’s when you can sus things out.